"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ah, women

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This is an insight thread here.

We're all men. We understand men. We can tell if a man is out trying to get sex from his ex-girlfriend. We know how men react, think, etc. The one thing that unites us men is our quest to understand woman.

Now the odd thing is, you would think woman understands woman. But she doesn't.

Everything in the DJB and on this site is great information.

But it's given me some questions.

People like our mothers for instance, I'm sure they all want us to be happily wedded some day(for those of us interested in marriage). So you would think listening to that #1 woman in our life would be helpful, but we all know thats wrong. It's wrong to listen to women about women. Isn't it strange we have to depend on each other?

When we were young, if we liked a girl our mom would say well buy her some flowers etc.

Our mom would tell that to us, the woman who's looking out for our best needs and interests. How could that woman be wrong? If women understood women, that advice would be spot on, but it isn't.

Men are logical beasts. You would think if you tell someone you have feelings for them and provide them with a gift, they would possibly return that affection, but ehhh! wrong!

You come off as a creepy stalker instead.


Strange isn't it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stranger yet, women don't realize it.
 

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Men are logical beasts





lol thats what i'v always seen. There is is prollya logical explanation to why woman are soooo illogical 2. When i think about it, it is of course a comman trait for woman. jUst like our logic is a comman trait for men.


in the natrual world who is the defender and provider??? of course the man. We need logic in order to do this (hunt, forge...make fire...)

woman on the other hand have differnt harmones that are more extreme then us. All these harmones are going all over the place all the time and is a mess. Thus creating illogical things.
 

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Originally posted by Fenderules
woman on the other hand have differnt harmones that are more extreme then us. All these harmones are going all over the place all the time and is a mess. Thus creating illogical things.
Well put!

A man should never, never, never, NEvErrr...allow his actions to be dictated by the thoughts of a woman... he won't be the epidome of manliness...he'll be a girly man...
 

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lol and however you spell hormones. by bad. i prolly spelt it wrong again
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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