"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ah, women

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This is an insight thread here.

We're all men. We understand men. We can tell if a man is out trying to get sex from his ex-girlfriend. We know how men react, think, etc. The one thing that unites us men is our quest to understand woman.

Now the odd thing is, you would think woman understands woman. But she doesn't.

Everything in the DJB and on this site is great information.

But it's given me some questions.

People like our mothers for instance, I'm sure they all want us to be happily wedded some day(for those of us interested in marriage). So you would think listening to that #1 woman in our life would be helpful, but we all know thats wrong. It's wrong to listen to women about women. Isn't it strange we have to depend on each other?

When we were young, if we liked a girl our mom would say well buy her some flowers etc.

Our mom would tell that to us, the woman who's looking out for our best needs and interests. How could that woman be wrong? If women understood women, that advice would be spot on, but it isn't.

Men are logical beasts. You would think if you tell someone you have feelings for them and provide them with a gift, they would possibly return that affection, but ehhh! wrong!

You come off as a creepy stalker instead.


Strange isn't it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stranger yet, women don't realize it.
 

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Men are logical beasts





lol thats what i'v always seen. There is is prollya logical explanation to why woman are soooo illogical 2. When i think about it, it is of course a comman trait for woman. jUst like our logic is a comman trait for men.


in the natrual world who is the defender and provider??? of course the man. We need logic in order to do this (hunt, forge...make fire...)

woman on the other hand have differnt harmones that are more extreme then us. All these harmones are going all over the place all the time and is a mess. Thus creating illogical things.
 

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Originally posted by Fenderules
woman on the other hand have differnt harmones that are more extreme then us. All these harmones are going all over the place all the time and is a mess. Thus creating illogical things.
Well put!

A man should never, never, never, NEvErrr...allow his actions to be dictated by the thoughts of a woman... he won't be the epidome of manliness...he'll be a girly man...
 

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lol and however you spell hormones. by bad. i prolly spelt it wrong again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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