About 2 months ago I started talking to an old friend who added me on Facebook. As friends, we had lots of fluff talk. But I also told her about work, my goals (mainly starting a family) etc. A few weeks went by and I was off on my vacation to Disney. She had moved to Florida years ago. So she stayed with me and my friends for a few days, and we ended up having sex.
The fluff talk became a little more personal. She told me that she's planning on moving home. She asked if "this" could work out between us. I was like yeah sure, (insert BS here). A few weeks ago she mentioned that she's coming home for 3 days to search for places and jobs, she can stay with friends but would rather stay with me. Thinking score, I said sure you can stay a few days.
Fast forward.
Tonight she calls me drunk. But before that she texted me about dancing. I told her I hate it. So when she calls she's like so what if we work out, and get married, you wouldn't dance? HIT THE F'N BRAKES!
The convo shifted to "so if you still don't feel the same way, you used me" speech. Well what the hell did you expect. I haven't seen you in 10 years, we meet up and you stay for 2 days, and we have sex. Now a month has gone by, and you expect me to feel like "oh yey! my girlfriend is coming home for 3 days." At this point it also hit me, why on earth did I agree to let her stay here? Oh yeah, sex... well not anymore.
That's not to mention she told me other guys have been hitting on her, but she turns them down, because we MIGHT work out if and when she can move back home.
I got the whole I'm not a slut speech, I gave myself to you because I liked you. If I thought you were just another player blah blah blah. I told her what happened in Florida stays in Florida. She called me an *******, a piece of ****, wished nothing but bad things on me. I was like awesome I look forward to my series of unfortunate events and hung up.
You're not going to disrespect me. She tried the whole pity thing, but I didn't take the bait. Face it, you were a vacation fling. Don't get upset that because you're moving home that the fling wont turn LTR.
The point of this? Keep those plates spinning, and watch out for the headcases. Feels like dirt off the shoulder though, then again, it wasn't really dirty. Glad this happened now over the phone rather than her bringing up a topic like she did after sex. Yikes! could have got ugly.
The fluff talk became a little more personal. She told me that she's planning on moving home. She asked if "this" could work out between us. I was like yeah sure, (insert BS here). A few weeks ago she mentioned that she's coming home for 3 days to search for places and jobs, she can stay with friends but would rather stay with me. Thinking score, I said sure you can stay a few days.
Fast forward.
Tonight she calls me drunk. But before that she texted me about dancing. I told her I hate it. So when she calls she's like so what if we work out, and get married, you wouldn't dance? HIT THE F'N BRAKES!
The convo shifted to "so if you still don't feel the same way, you used me" speech. Well what the hell did you expect. I haven't seen you in 10 years, we meet up and you stay for 2 days, and we have sex. Now a month has gone by, and you expect me to feel like "oh yey! my girlfriend is coming home for 3 days." At this point it also hit me, why on earth did I agree to let her stay here? Oh yeah, sex... well not anymore.
That's not to mention she told me other guys have been hitting on her, but she turns them down, because we MIGHT work out if and when she can move back home.
I got the whole I'm not a slut speech, I gave myself to you because I liked you. If I thought you were just another player blah blah blah. I told her what happened in Florida stays in Florida. She called me an *******, a piece of ****, wished nothing but bad things on me. I was like awesome I look forward to my series of unfortunate events and hung up.
You're not going to disrespect me. She tried the whole pity thing, but I didn't take the bait. Face it, you were a vacation fling. Don't get upset that because you're moving home that the fling wont turn LTR.
The point of this? Keep those plates spinning, and watch out for the headcases. Feels like dirt off the shoulder though, then again, it wasn't really dirty. Glad this happened now over the phone rather than her bringing up a topic like she did after sex. Yikes! could have got ugly.
