"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Agressivley accused of hitting on GF's friend? **** test?

Handsfull

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My girlfriend and I were broken up over the summer. During this time, one of her friends came into my work frequently and gave IOI's, flirt, and say that she was "friends with my girlfriend, but would neeeeevvver date her". And that I was still cool wth her, etc. She and I would flirt ( she flirts with everybody) and talk. One night I was wasted and fb messaged her asked what she was doin', etc. Said I looked forward to seeing her again when she came into the store. She proceeded to "like fb photos of mine. That was the extent of any "hitting on". And it was mutual...

Now, I'm not even sure if this is the scenario she's talking about because she just texted me this 10 minutes ago, and has not said who it was. We've also been fighting all day, so it might just be bull**** she's pulling out of thin air. I was going to ask who it was, but I don't wan't to give it any validity.


My girl and I were broken up for two moths at the point and she was with another dude when these conversations with her friend took place anyway. Is this even a big deal? She now says, it's over, and I'm "DEAD to her". Is this a **** test? She's a cluster B.

How should I play this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's a cluster B.

Next. Even if was any of her business its just jealously, what're doing still talking to your ex? A cluster B one at that...
 

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Frayzer said:
She's a cluster B.

Next. Even if was any of her business its just jealously, what're doing still talking to your ex? A cluster B one at that...
Cause I'm a dip ****. I got hoovered. She offered the pvssy on a silver platter one night...I was in a bit of a dry spell
 

gravityeyelids

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i mean it's a bad idea, but not the worst idea in the world to keep your ex around JUST for screwing...IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT EMOTIONALLY. (assuming she's hot and not crazy)((hah- those never go hand in hand))

Proceed with caution. Don't even worry about gaming her. She's your ex. If you're not going to go NC on her, use her for sex and NOTHING ELSE. She is going to treat you like a used paper towel, so do the same to her.

The fact that you're worried about her being "mad" at you or whatever is a bad sign. Worst case, you need to completely ignore her accusations. Like you said, dont give them credibility. BEST CASE: go ghost on her and game other girls.
 

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Agree and amplify. "Yeah I was hitting on her along with 50 other chicks, gotta build my harem up." Plus fighting with women is pointless. When children act out you don't fight with them. You simply punish them and send them to their room, timeout, whatever. Treat women the same. Tell her you aren't going to deal with her drama and go ghost.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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