"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agressivley accused of hitting on GF's friend? **** test?

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My girlfriend and I were broken up over the summer. During this time, one of her friends came into my work frequently and gave IOI's, flirt, and say that she was "friends with my girlfriend, but would neeeeevvver date her". And that I was still cool wth her, etc. She and I would flirt ( she flirts with everybody) and talk. One night I was wasted and fb messaged her asked what she was doin', etc. Said I looked forward to seeing her again when she came into the store. She proceeded to "like fb photos of mine. That was the extent of any "hitting on". And it was mutual...

Now, I'm not even sure if this is the scenario she's talking about because she just texted me this 10 minutes ago, and has not said who it was. We've also been fighting all day, so it might just be bull**** she's pulling out of thin air. I was going to ask who it was, but I don't wan't to give it any validity.


My girl and I were broken up for two moths at the point and she was with another dude when these conversations with her friend took place anyway. Is this even a big deal? She now says, it's over, and I'm "DEAD to her". Is this a **** test? She's a cluster B.

How should I play this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's a cluster B.

Next. Even if was any of her business its just jealously, what're doing still talking to your ex? A cluster B one at that...
 

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Frayzer said:
She's a cluster B.

Next. Even if was any of her business its just jealously, what're doing still talking to your ex? A cluster B one at that...
Cause I'm a dip ****. I got hoovered. She offered the pvssy on a silver platter one night...I was in a bit of a dry spell
 

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i mean it's a bad idea, but not the worst idea in the world to keep your ex around JUST for screwing...IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT EMOTIONALLY. (assuming she's hot and not crazy)((hah- those never go hand in hand))

Proceed with caution. Don't even worry about gaming her. She's your ex. If you're not going to go NC on her, use her for sex and NOTHING ELSE. She is going to treat you like a used paper towel, so do the same to her.

The fact that you're worried about her being "mad" at you or whatever is a bad sign. Worst case, you need to completely ignore her accusations. Like you said, dont give them credibility. BEST CASE: go ghost on her and game other girls.
 

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Agree and amplify. "Yeah I was hitting on her along with 50 other chicks, gotta build my harem up." Plus fighting with women is pointless. When children act out you don't fight with them. You simply punish them and send them to their room, timeout, whatever. Treat women the same. Tell her you aren't going to deal with her drama and go ghost.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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