"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aggressiveness in sex

djthiago1

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I tend to be quite dominating in bed. Hair pulling, ass smacking, light choking and all that.

Would such kind of primal and rough sex be acceptable if it's your first time ****ing a girl?

I'm a bit inexperienced, only had 1 partner (lasted a year) and i am very dominant, and i got some girls that i'll probably be getting to **** soon, so i'm wondering.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jair213

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yup its good to be dominant.. i tend to cross the line a bit sometimes and slightly slap there face lol
 

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Echo Jair it is good to be dominant. I think some girls are different. Try it, but if she says STOP then STOP
 

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Some girls like the choking thing, but I have always shied away from it because I am scared of killing the b!tch. Also, if you leave marks on her throat, it would be too easy for her to claim rape later. Bruises there are very incriminating.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Some girls like the choking thing, but I have always shied away from it because I am scared of killing the b!tch. Also, if you leave marks on her throat, it would be too easy for her to claim rape later. Bruises there are very incriminating.
Good point.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Never choke or hit the first time you sleep with someone unless she tells you up front that she likes it. Try a bit of hair pulling and grab her wrists and see how she reacts. Escalate slowly. If she knows that she's into those things, then she'll make is quite obvious that she wants you to escalate.
 

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Definitely not the first time. Always give them something to look forward to.

First time you fcuk a girl comfortably, take your time, don't overlook a step and concentrate on pleasuring her. First time is for her, not you. As time progresses you can gradually unleash the beast.

Now, ass grabbing and spanking is just normal seks routine so is hair pulling, def do those first time. One round you do the spanking another round hair pulling.

If you unleash everything too quick, she gets bored brother. When you finally slam her to the wall and take her from behind she'll scream "He's so spontaneous".

I'm encountering a girl that just likes love making all the time and I'm for having seks than love making if you know the difference, so tread carefully but fcuk em regardless.
 

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stevo said:
Definitely not the first time. Always give them something to look forward to.

First time you fcuk a girl comfortably, take your time, don't overlook a step and concentrate on pleasuring her. First time is for her, not you. As time progresses you can gradually unleash the beast.

Now, ass grabbing and spanking is just normal seks routine so is hair pulling, def do those first time. One round you do the spanking another round hair pulling.

If you unleash everything too quick, she gets bored brother. When you finally slam her to the wall and take her from behind she'll scream "He's so spontaneous".

I'm encountering a girl that just likes love making all the time and I'm for having seks than love making if you know the difference, so tread carefully but fcuk em regardless.

How old is this love making broad Stevo? I've never heard a chick say that just curiuos.....
 
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