Age you lost your virginity?

[MM92]

Now everybody be honest, lying to people about something like this on the internet is not cool. At what age did you all lose your virginity? I lost mine at 15 with a girlfriend I had been with a few months, who was also a virgin.

I ask this because I have seen many people on here past and present mention being a virgin well into their 20's. How does this happen? I'm not saying i'm better than anybody because of this but I just don't see how it's possible to still be a virgin at such an age unless you was waiting until marriage etc

 

[McMotherLover]

I was 16 and thought that was bad. I think if you're 18 and haven't been laid yet you need to take a good look at yourself in the mirror. If nothing is wrong there then think about how you are acting towards women. Something would be off

 

[Jair213]

23. I was always insecure. Now I'm getting laid atleast 3 times a month.

 

[AlphaNate]

17 or 18. I really can't remember. But I was kind of a late bloomer compared to my friends.

 

[MM92]

23. I was always insecure. Now I'm getting laid atleast 3 times a month.

At least you're making up for it now :rockon:

I was the youngest of my friends at 15 but all of my friends had lost it by the age of 18, even the ones that were rather shy with females at first. I did always have a fear of dying a virgin when I was 13/14, I think it started when I watched the 40 year old virgin haha

 

[sighsigh]

Some form of social anxiety would be the reason (ranging from standard introversion to full bloom social anxiety disorder).

I'd say things have 'gone wrong' if you haven't lost your virginity by your first or second year of university (that would be 18-19, so the cutoff would be your 20th birthday). After that point, alarm bells should go off (but not before then) and you should definitely be taking steps to correct the situation ASAP.

This site attracts mainly two kinds of people: those who are hopeless with women because they have some form of social anxiety and are looking to correct it, and those who have always been outgoing party animals who consider themselves experts with women and are just looking for tips to fine-tune their game. It's a bimodal distribution. So it's expected that there are a lot of late-bloomers here.