"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you're talking to a new girl, always ask her age before she asks yours. Why?

1. You're qualifying her on the basis of age--not the other way around. She has to be of the proper age in order to get in with you.

2. It gives you an opportunity to fib about your age if she is older, ex. I'm 18, so if I'm talking to a 20 yr old chick, I could stretch the truth a little and say I'm nineteen. If you're 38 and talking to a 28 year old girl, you could also do the same thing in the other direction. Of course, the truth will come out if you end up having any kind of relationship with this girl, but as long as you didn't make up something ridiculous, she shouldn't care too much.

-Dan
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Personally I wouldn't waste time on a woman that has a hang up about age. More times than not it isn't an issue when my DJ skills are on high. My only suggestion is to make sure she's legal.
 
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don't believe in that "you never ask a woman her age" thing - a woman that is not interested in you will say that.

a woman who is somewhat interested in you would go.. "guess" or if they're cool they'll tell their age.
 
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I don't know about that. Atleast it's inpolite to ask a woman her age. I dunno about you guys :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Slimijs
I don't know about that. Atleast it's inpolite to ask a woman her age. I dunno about you guys :confused:
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Why?
 
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I totally agree with this tip because I was about to DJ this one chick that looked like she was at least 15 and maybe even older. She turned out to be 12:eek: . I was going to make a thread just like this but your one step ahead of me.

And to Slim. Who cares what is socially acceptable. If you did everything acceptable you would have no fun. And who gives a sh!t.
 
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I guess its only rude to ask a woman's age if shes really old and embarrassed about it. I don't think women below 25 are ashamed of their age.
 
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Francisco -- being 36, age probably isn't as much of a problem for you because you'd usually be older than the girls you're interacting with, not younger. But for kids fresh out of high school like myself, being even two years younger than a girl can be a problem for her at first.

Haha baseballDJ, I did the exact same thing once! I talked to her for a few minutes, and thought I had a pretty good vibe going, but then her friend comes over and tell me she's 12, and I'm like "Oh ****!" and avoided her for the rest of the night(I was 17 at the time).

Peace
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Oh god yes, ask their age.

I was in a bike race a couple of weeks ago. I was trying to settle my nerves (big race) by talking to people. There was a HB 9 (petite, tanned and very cute) at this same race (lady cyclist, mmm) and I was talking to her for a few minutes. Now I have a girlfriend so I wasn't gonna ask her out or anythnig. But we were constantly doing kino on each other and I was beginning to get, umm, "excited" and I was wearing those real tight shorts :D , so I excused myself to go to the bathroom (no, I didn't whack one off you pervs :) ).

Anyway, half an hour later they call the UNDER 12's to the line, and there she was :eek: . Holy s**t, she was just after having her 12th birthday about a week before!

EDIT: I'm 16 (despite what my thingy says) I could have gotten arrested!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Past saturday in the club.

Girl: how old are you?
Me: 22
Girl: guess mine.
Me: You dont ask a girl's age (smile)
Girl: ok, im 25.
Me: I've dated older women (blink, smile and small -"i wanna **** you tonight" shoulder kino)
 
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Originally posted by Columbia
Oh god yes, ask their age.

I was in a bike race a couple of weeks ago. I was trying to settle my nerves (big race) by talking to people. There was a HB 9 (petite, tanned and very cute) at this same race (lady cyclist, mmm) and I was talking to her for a few minutes. Now I have a girlfriend so I wasn't gonna ask her out or anythnig. But we were constantly doing kino on each other and I was beginning to get, umm, "excited" and I was wearing those real tight shorts :D , so I excused myself to go to the bathroom (no, I didn't whack one off you pervs :) ).

Anyway, half an hour later they call the UNDER 12's to the line, and there she was :eek: . Holy s**t, she was just after having her 12th birthday about a week before!

EDIT: I'm 16 (despite what my thingy says) I could have gotten arrested!
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Lol, so suave. ;)
 
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I don't know how pedophilia laws work your state/country, but I'm sure I can be arrested for even being slightly sexual with a 12 year old.

Of course I am 24...
 
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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Lol, so suave. ;)
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Lol, thank you. At least I got a bit of practise. :D
 
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Hi,

Gunwitch, I liked the post very much.
You mention that you are short. I don't know if this is just an example or reality. How tall are you?
What do you think about height and women? Do you approach women who are taller than you? What are your views about that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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