"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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age limit...the line in the sand.

THEE_ELUSIVE_1

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honestly every girl around here from age 20+ and even younger seems to have a baby around here. i honestly feel younger girls fit my scenrio better but don't wanna be a creep. i'm 23 where should the line be drawn. because in canada, 16 is legal. and i've had girls as young as that and possibly even younger blantantly hit on me... and they're fricken obscene about it when they do it.. kinda makes a mofo feel uncomfortable and like a creep if you know what i mean.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tsmith2334

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if you're 23, i wouldn't go any lower then 19. i just wouldn't. personal preference.
 

THEE_ELUSIVE_1

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but what am i gonna do.. ID the girl? cuz i don't know what the hell they are putting in the food now a days but it's almost impossible somtimes for me to tell a 16yr old from a 19yr old.
 

xander

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it depends on how she looks..like if shes 16 and looks like shes 12 then thats gross but if shes 16 and looks like shes 19 than its ok
 

mintxx

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ask them how old they are. the line is to be drawn at the law or your preference. i don't really understand the point of your post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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strong like bull

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sometimes youve just gotta do what you want and tell everyone else to fvck off.

im 22 and my gf is 18. when we started dating i was 21 to her 17, and you better believe i never heard the end of it from friends and family. everybody jumped to conclusions... but i did what i want and went for it...

and this month will be our 1yr anniversary. ive had my fair share of women and even tho this one is the youngest ive had, she is by far my favorite. but if i let other people make my decisions for me... i never would have gotten to find out, would i?
i would have missed out on a very amazing adventure...

-SLB
 

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I like that. The line is at the law or your preference, whichever is higher. I would find it odd for a college graduate to be dating a sophomore in high school, though.
 
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