"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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age limit...the line in the sand.

THEE_ELUSIVE_1

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honestly every girl around here from age 20+ and even younger seems to have a baby around here. i honestly feel younger girls fit my scenrio better but don't wanna be a creep. i'm 23 where should the line be drawn. because in canada, 16 is legal. and i've had girls as young as that and possibly even younger blantantly hit on me... and they're fricken obscene about it when they do it.. kinda makes a mofo feel uncomfortable and like a creep if you know what i mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tsmith2334

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if you're 23, i wouldn't go any lower then 19. i just wouldn't. personal preference.
 

THEE_ELUSIVE_1

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but what am i gonna do.. ID the girl? cuz i don't know what the hell they are putting in the food now a days but it's almost impossible somtimes for me to tell a 16yr old from a 19yr old.
 

xander

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it depends on how she looks..like if shes 16 and looks like shes 12 then thats gross but if shes 16 and looks like shes 19 than its ok
 

mintxx

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ask them how old they are. the line is to be drawn at the law or your preference. i don't really understand the point of your post.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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strong like bull

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sometimes youve just gotta do what you want and tell everyone else to fvck off.

im 22 and my gf is 18. when we started dating i was 21 to her 17, and you better believe i never heard the end of it from friends and family. everybody jumped to conclusions... but i did what i want and went for it...

and this month will be our 1yr anniversary. ive had my fair share of women and even tho this one is the youngest ive had, she is by far my favorite. but if i let other people make my decisions for me... i never would have gotten to find out, would i?
i would have missed out on a very amazing adventure...

-SLB
 

Effington

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I like that. The line is at the law or your preference, whichever is higher. I would find it odd for a college graduate to be dating a sophomore in high school, though.
 
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