RichardTheFrog
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I'm 30. Not long ago, I was on Tinder and a match told me that she was unsure at first because of my age. She thought I was too young. Perhaps a person's dating options only get better with age? One can only hope.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Like with all things, it depends on the individual.When i was on Tinder, i set the age up to 40 to see everything that was on there.
But the women post 35 there were such poor quality that it depressed me to consider about that being a potential dating pool for me in a decade or two.
I think men's age is a funny thing. I had a lot of success in my teens/early 20's, then went through a weird period of trying to adapt to being an adult where i fell into typical beta territory (one or two new lays a year, if i was lucky). I've since sorted that to having better results than i've ever managed.
I can't imagine it peaking later than 35, possibly 40 though. I don't see where the guys are coming from who make out that men peak any later than that.
So don't hold out thinking that the game will get easier. Because you missed one massive peak already (teenage party years), and you might be wasting another (30 to 35, when both brain and body are in good nick).
I also find it interesting that the average age of marriage in my country is something like 31 for women and 33 for men iirc. Which goes to show who is bossing the frame, doesn't it?
No fvcking way would i get married at this point. If i were inclined, i'd do it at about 40.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'd rather become a multimillionaire.Just lift weights . that's the only advantage you'll have over 90% of younger guys. Most young guys don't lift at all and they're skrawny as hell.... I'm not saying u need to get Brock lesnar big, but u need to get big enough to have a presence when you walk in the room... when people call you big dog everywhere you go, that's when you'll know you have achieved that presence
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
based on what? lots of men look like garbage - fat and bald by 40Men age like fine wine, whereas women age like milk
Remember that
Yeah sure, if that makes you happy.based on what? lots of men look like garbage - fat and bald by 40
if you mean that men age great when they work out obsessively, take great care of themselves and get hair transplant surgery then you can say the same thing about women
women can have kids until 40 or soYeah sure, if that makes you happy.
Women have wombs.....they have a limited time, before what they can bring to the table which is valuable....reaches it's sell by date...