RichardTheFrog
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I'm 30. Not long ago, I was on Tinder and a match told me that she was unsure at first because of my age. She thought I was too young. Perhaps a person's dating options only get better with age? One can only hope.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Like with all things, it depends on the individual.When i was on Tinder, i set the age up to 40 to see everything that was on there.
But the women post 35 there were such poor quality that it depressed me to consider about that being a potential dating pool for me in a decade or two.
I think men's age is a funny thing. I had a lot of success in my teens/early 20's, then went through a weird period of trying to adapt to being an adult where i fell into typical beta territory (one or two new lays a year, if i was lucky). I've since sorted that to having better results than i've ever managed.
I can't imagine it peaking later than 35, possibly 40 though. I don't see where the guys are coming from who make out that men peak any later than that.
So don't hold out thinking that the game will get easier. Because you missed one massive peak already (teenage party years), and you might be wasting another (30 to 35, when both brain and body are in good nick).
I also find it interesting that the average age of marriage in my country is something like 31 for women and 33 for men iirc. Which goes to show who is bossing the frame, doesn't it?
No fvcking way would i get married at this point. If i were inclined, i'd do it at about 40.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'd rather become a multimillionaire.Just lift weights . that's the only advantage you'll have over 90% of younger guys. Most young guys don't lift at all and they're skrawny as hell.... I'm not saying u need to get Brock lesnar big, but u need to get big enough to have a presence when you walk in the room... when people call you big dog everywhere you go, that's when you'll know you have achieved that presence
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
based on what? lots of men look like garbage - fat and bald by 40Men age like fine wine, whereas women age like milk
Remember that
Yeah sure, if that makes you happy.based on what? lots of men look like garbage - fat and bald by 40
if you mean that men age great when they work out obsessively, take great care of themselves and get hair transplant surgery then you can say the same thing about women
women can have kids until 40 or soYeah sure, if that makes you happy.
Women have wombs.....they have a limited time, before what they can bring to the table which is valuable....reaches it's sell by date...