RichardTheFrog
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I'm 30. Not long ago, I was on Tinder and a match told me that she was unsure at first because of my age. She thought I was too young. Perhaps a person's dating options only get better with age? One can only hope.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Age is a good thing?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
masterhunt
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Well I think age doesn't matter,,,improve your game and d girl is urz
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Lol I notice the same and my best friend too.
Once you turn 30 your matches gets less and less, I unistalled tinder and he will do soon I guess, he moved from 10s match a week in his late 20s to almost none right now.
It seems like young girls draw a line at 29 and even the older ones either dropped it to move to others sites cause no one chase them there or they simply understood its not their game anymore.
Once you turn 30 your matches gets less and less, I unistalled tinder and he will do soon I guess, he moved from 10s match a week in his late 20s to almost none right now.
It seems like young girls draw a line at 29 and even the older ones either dropped it to move to others sites cause no one chase them there or they simply understood its not their game anymore.
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I really need help can anyone teach me the art of bodylanguage
Like with all things, it depends on the individual.
I have a friend who is 40 and he is dating a HOT 24 year old. He is not even mega successful or rich either.
There are guys who thrive up until age 25 and can't get sh*t after that. There are also guys who totally bomb in their 20's and clean up from 30-40.
Just depends on the guy and the life choices he makes.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
logicallefty
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Dating Is a hell of a lot better when you get older, in my opinion. Shoot I look back at all of the decent women I probably scared away back when I was a little beta wuss. All of the fvcking shlt I did for them like a little bytch trying to win them over FOR NOTHING. Looks wise I pulled them in but they quickly chewed me up and spit me out because I had no frame/game. That ain’t happening now. I’m putting less effort into it, being more picky, and having more fun.
masterhunt
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You seems really good,,am kinda a newbie can you explain that art of body language cod I. totally don't get it
Just lift weights . that's the only advantage you'll have over 90% of younger guys. Most young guys don't lift at all and they're skrawny as hell.... I'm not saying u need to get Brock lesnar big, but u need to get big enough to have a presence when you walk in the room... when people call you big dog everywhere you go, that's when you'll know you have achieved that presence
RichardTheFrog
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I'd rather become a multimillionaire.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
based on what? lots of men look like garbage - fat and bald by 40
if you mean that men age great when they work out obsessively, take great care of themselves and get hair transplant surgery then you can say the same thing about women
Yeah sure, if that makes you happy.
Women have wombs.....they have a limited time, before what they can bring to the table which is valuable....reaches it's sell by date...
women can have kids until 40 or so
What sane man would want to have kids past 40 or 45 or so?