Age; how much should it be considered?

[CamCam]

So I'm new, reaaaally new, and I'm 35.

How much do you guys consider age in your approaches? Not at all, somewhat?

Do I go balls to the wall and approach any girl I'm attracted to that seems of age, or would you recommend sticking to a range of sorts?

I'm terrible at guessing a girls age anyways, but I thought it might be worth asking

Thanks

 

[wifehunter]

So I'm new, reaaaally new, and I'm 35.

How much do you guys consider age in your approaches? Not at all, somewhat?

Do I go balls to the wall and approach any girl I'm attracted to that seems of age, or would you recommend sticking to a range of sorts?

I'm terrible at guessing a girls age anyways, but I thought it might be worth asking

Thanks

Girls I meet are in food service... so automatic +18. Some of them look 16ish.
Lolz! IDGAF

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Within 5 years works out better for relationships.

 

[Glassguy]

Younger women want older men. Its the new norm. At 40 I date lots of women in their mid to upper 20s and I dont think anything of it, neither do they.

Age is only a big deal if you act like it's a big deal. Just like anything else. Own it and use it to your advantage.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

So I'm new, reaaaally new, and I'm 35.

How much do you guys consider age in your approaches? Not at all, somewhat?

Do I go balls to the wall and approach any girl I'm attracted to that seems of age, or would you recommend sticking to a range of sorts?

I'm terrible at guessing a girls age anyways, but I thought it might be worth asking

Thanks

At 35, as long as they are of age, no problem. You are just hitting your peak SMV (sexual market value).

-Augustus-

 

[Spaz]

35 yrs old X 0.5 + 7 = 24.5 years old and below

That's ur targeted range of women u r likely to succeed.

It's got to do with EQ balance.

 

[wifehunter]

Unfortunately, time is not a good indicator of maturity. Things are not that easy.

 

[Spaz]

It does as a matter of fact.

If u r in the same age bracket, as a general rule, she will have a much higher EQ then you, and as time roll by it will only get higher until she views you as a man-child. That's when the fighting starts and the ensuing disrespect.

^^Higher probabilities

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Unfortunately, time is not a good indicator of maturity. Things are not that easy.

There are generational norms . Some things certain generations do might bother you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It does as a matter of fact.

If u r in the same age bracket, as a general rule, she will have a much higher EQ then you, and as time roll by it will only get higher until she views you as a man-child. That's when the fighting starts and the ensuing disrespect.

^^Higher probabilities

In my situation the women older and closer to my age we're able to be more supportive if a man my age. The younger were like a deer in the headlights when it comes to supporting a man from a feminine perspective .

 

[Spaz]

A sub will always take an older women.

He needs the support.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A sub will always take an older women.

He needs the support.

No. Older women know how to be submissive and will help a younger man. Who gets into a relationship to have only a liability. The younger women tend to be with an older to only help themselves .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So a man is going to add to his kingdom and only get an energy drain and a liability? Smh

 

[CamCam]

Younger women want older men. Its the new norm. At 40 I date lots of women in their mid to upper 20s and I dont think anything of it, neither do they.

Age is only a big deal if you act like it's a big deal. Just like anything else. Own it and use it to your advantage.

Ah, and therein lies the key; to own it, act nothing of it, don't mention it even and persist. Thank you sir. That rings true

 

[dustmuffin]

Dating a woman 20 years younger than me. She loves the fact that I lead and take control in the bedroom. She cleans my house, cooks, washes my clothes and spends a lot of money on me.

I say approach any woman that you are attracted to. All they can say is no. That doesn't hurt.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dating a woman 20 years younger than me. She loves the fact that I lead and take control in the bedroom. She cleans my house, cooks, washes my clothes and spends a lot of money on me.

I say approach any woman that you are attracted to. All they can say is no. That doesn't hurt.

Awesome. She appreciates and values you.

 

[wifehunter]

Dating a woman 20 years younger than me. She loves the fact that I lead and take control in the bedroom. She cleans my house, cooks, washes my clothes and spends a lot of money on me.

I say approach any woman that you are attracted to. All they can say is no. That doesn't hurt.

Most of them smile, and/or play with their hair. Go figure!

My single days are numbered.

 

[redskinsfan92]

18 and up

 

[CamCam]

No. Older women know how to be submissive and will help a younger man. Who gets into a relationship to have only a liability. The younger women tend to be with an older to only help themselves .

This seems true to me.

I've been talking with a girl, who is a year older than me. She's lavishing me with attention, and subtly submitting, any chance she gets. We were going to have a coffee, and she just scrapped that and insisted on dinner instead.
This feels like an easy lay, but most likely will turn into a problem quickly, as she seems clingy. I suppose that impending wall has her all sorts of desperate; and desperate is paramount to submissive (if used correctly, no?)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This seems true to me.

I've been talking with a girl, who is a year older than me. She's lavishing me with attention, and subtly submitting, any chance she gets. We were going to have a coffee, and she just scrapped that and insisted on dinner instead.
This feels like an easy lay, but most likely will turn into a problem quickly, as she seems clingy. I suppose that impending wall has her all sorts of desperate; and desperate is paramount to submissive (if used correctly, no?)

It's not . Don't look at it as needy. Lavish it .

Younger won't do it cause they usually don't appreciate you. Younger is also talking to four other men.

Older might just want a man of her own and she might want to be in love.

Younger just want fun.

Let the older spoil you, you deserve it. Even ONE year older makes a difference.