"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Age gap to parents and level of success

Eternal_water

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One of the biggest factors in most peoples upbringing is their parents.

And as we know, generally traits of the people you spend a lot of time with tend to rub off on you.

Parents obviously play a big part in the person a child grows up to be.

I have this idea that the older a persons parents are than them, the less they will generally be succesful with women.

Say for instance past a certain age the older people get the further they get away from their partying fun loving days and more towards the settled down, rule following, safe and boring ways.
And If they have kids this may well rub off on them.

Younger parents may be more in touch with technology and more importantly in touch with the culture of the day. They may even be seperated and dating. And this would rub off on the kids.

Clearly If this was the case the guy with younger parents in this scenario has more chance as he is more in touch with culture and dating, where as the other one has the safe and boring traits.






My parents are 40 years older than me and I'm a 21 yr old virgin.

Now this may all sound like excuse making but I'm interested to know If it holds any water.

So for those of you who will, could you say you approximate age gap to your parents and level of success with women?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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My parents are nearly 40 years old older then me and I've ran thew females.

It's all in your mindset. Nearly everybody can be successful with females if they have the right mindset. Your a young cat. You need to go out and experiment with ladies and figure out what works best for you man.
 
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I was raised by a single mother who is 40 years older than me and I have always thought that this (plus not having any male role models) was a big part of why i failed to be good with women. Thanks to this site though I am now on the way towards becoming good with women and becoming more social.
 
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