"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

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Age gap to parents and level of success

Eternal_water

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One of the biggest factors in most peoples upbringing is their parents.

And as we know, generally traits of the people you spend a lot of time with tend to rub off on you.

Parents obviously play a big part in the person a child grows up to be.

I have this idea that the older a persons parents are than them, the less they will generally be succesful with women.

Say for instance past a certain age the older people get the further they get away from their partying fun loving days and more towards the settled down, rule following, safe and boring ways.
And If they have kids this may well rub off on them.

Younger parents may be more in touch with technology and more importantly in touch with the culture of the day. They may even be seperated and dating. And this would rub off on the kids.

Clearly If this was the case the guy with younger parents in this scenario has more chance as he is more in touch with culture and dating, where as the other one has the safe and boring traits.






My parents are 40 years older than me and I'm a 21 yr old virgin.

Now this may all sound like excuse making but I'm interested to know If it holds any water.

So for those of you who will, could you say you approximate age gap to your parents and level of success with women?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ

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My parents are nearly 40 years old older then me and I've ran thew females.

It's all in your mindset. Nearly everybody can be successful with females if they have the right mindset. Your a young cat. You need to go out and experiment with ladies and figure out what works best for you man.
 
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I was raised by a single mother who is 40 years older than me and I have always thought that this (plus not having any male role models) was a big part of why i failed to be good with women. Thanks to this site though I am now on the way towards becoming good with women and becoming more social.
 
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