"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Packers2010

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hey guys.

i have a friend. we been talking for a bit and she is cool.

she has a sister who i met online. she is kind of cool. she hell geeky like me. the only problem is she is 17 and i am 21.

i don't think there would be a problem there. but you know what people are like. she is still in school.

a privet school to boot. ( i dig the hole school girl thing)

do you think that age gap is too big to try anything. obvs she is too young just for a sex thing. so i would probably have to date her. she witch is ok, cos she seems cool.

anyway what do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SeymourCake

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What is up with these frequent threads about seeing if it's cool to get some action with a minor lately?
 

Iceberg

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SeymourCake said:
What is up with these frequent threads about seeing if it's cool to get some action with a minor lately?
Hah. Right.

And what if we say that it's NOT okay? Is this guy gonna stop talking to her because of what some strangers on the internet said?

It's a 4-year difference. When I was 21 I'd rather not date 17 year olds, but that's just me. Packers seems weirder and younger than I was at 21, so just do what you want....
 

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hey wait just a minute.. what happened to that girl you were meant to have drinks with. dont tell me you went there drunk ...!
 

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SeymourCake said:
What is up with these frequent threads about seeing if it's cool to get some action with a minor lately?
I was just thinking the exact same thing.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If it's legal in your area then go for it?
I mean if you're afraid of hurting her (because you don't want a relationship whatever), then that's another issue. But yeah, you have virgins at 17 and virgins at 22, so age wouldn't make a big difference to your decision...
 

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blackwolf said:
hey wait just a minute.. what happened to that girl you were meant to have drinks with. dont tell me you went there drunk ...!

no i got drunk the night before and txted her calling her a slut.

she called me up and abused me and said she dosen't want to be my friend anymore.


so we aint friends. so i just slept threw the hole thing. then later on i sent her a message apologizing and saying this is best. not being friends.. so she called me up after reading the message abuse me and would let me get a word in whats new saying f u and i don't except your apology. so i tired to call her back a few times so i could say something. but she wouldn't pick up. then her bf did. so i was like. " sigh it's gunna be like this is it. " so i just left it as it is.

whatever.

when i was drunk calling her a slut it was ****ing funny as ****. telling her. while she is in full rant. " if i wanted to be nagged to death i would have got a gf"


so now i am trying to hit on this new girl.


@ at thread.

i don't know why i posted this. was kind of bored and wanted to know.

i'm might do it. but i probably have a better chance with her older sister. she is 19 and just got out of a long term thing so she is looking for. sex.

but she has met me a few times. i think she thinks i am weired.
 
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