"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Age and height?

frivolousz21

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yea same here..im about 5 7..and they are like im taller than you..yea with 3 inch heals HOR!


chris
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try it all. You'll reach a point where you have narrowed it down to what you like; what feels good to you -- where all the nooks and crannies fit.

Personally, I like 'em petite but with muscular definition. My FB is 5'1" and has the Joan Jett thing going on (plays bass in a band) -- leather jacket, insane hair, and a taut little tummy. I'm big on the stomach.

The CHB I just broke up with is as tall as me (5'10") but has a slim build, B-cups, and legs for days -- the ballerina look, with long toned muscles. She is a real stunner. So I guess height is not as important to me as @$$ and hips. Don't like the "child-rearing hips." I consider myself adequately endowed, but every (white) girl I've fvcked who has that corn-fed, broad-shoulders / wide-hips build has been like fvcking a glass of hot water. Not my thing.

Actually, that broad-shoulders / wide-hips thing is cute to me if she's petite; I could always go for a curvy little bubble-bvtt. Especially if she has dimples. Hmm. That just occurred to me.

Age doesn't matter to me. I once had a FB who was 39 and she was spectacular. My current FB is 20 and still solidly in the sexual experimentation learning curve, but she's two floors below my apartment so you can't have everything.

The main thing -- #1 thing -- for me is the smile.
 

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when people settle down for fb instead of relationships like bullmoose, it pretty much explains the downward spiral of society.
 

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Yeah, downward spiral.

Shows what you know.

I travel all over the globe managing humanitarian projects. I have FB's and short-term relationships because I seem to spend half my job on airplanes and the other half throwing 100-lb. sacks of rice into and out of helicopters in $#!+holes you've probably never heard of.

How fvcking dare you judge me? You don't know $#!+ about me. I've got shrapnel scars that I received in a country I bet you couldn't find on an unmarked map in three tries. I speak bits and pieces of six languages and my idea of a "working vacation" is teaching displaced refugees how to identify and dispose of land mines.

I've developed a lifestyle and a skill set that falls outside the slack-bellied, soft-knuckled norm, and many of the things I've learned -- namely, how to get laid expediently and how to handle non-emotional relationships -- are of considerable value to people on this board. I chose to spend my "prime years" working to save lives by the thousands instead of finding one chick and spending my life watching American Idol and making babies. If that doesn't compute, then you'd best get with the fvcking program, sweetie. I *AM* the new generation. People like me are the only future you've got.

Now sit the fvck down and pay attention. You might learn something.
 

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something tells me ur not the future of humanity.....ur lifestyle works for you! :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
something tells me ur not the future of humanity.....ur lifestyle works for you! :)
Thanks. You know, it does work for me. And a lot of it transfers over to you. Which is why I'm here.

Many -- heck, most -- of the people I'm meeting who are doing the serious, sweat-and-blood work in this field, are around my age or younger. I have hope that this kind of work will become the Next Big Thing. If we all gave a crap about something other than our own c0cks, we could really make something outta this place. . . but we'd still all need get laid.
 
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