"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aftershave lotion effective?

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Does aftershave lotion work at all? or is it just a gimmick to attract buyers?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effective at what? Isn't it just another form of cologne? If you mean disinfecting cuts, it's effectively expensive rubbing alcohol. Me personally, I don't use it.
 

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if after shave isn't worth the money, then would it be appropriate to splash on a little colonge on your face before I go to work.
 

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aftershave balm?
Good.

aftershave = cologne in my book :p
 

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I thought the point was a nice smelling moisturizer for after you're done tearing up your face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It moisterizes? I've never actually used it, so I just picture the scene from Home Alone lol
 

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I like it. If you get a good product, it really moisturises your skin and leaves it feeling very good for the day.

They don't really have such a strong smell, so you can even put on cologne a few minutes later once it sinks into your skin. :p
 

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i use aftershave balm.
i also pull a bottle of water from the fridge and hold it to my face to limit blood flow to the skin on my face, it seems to minimize the visual symptoms of skin irritation.
 
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Having a good aftershave makes all the differance. A good one will help the skin stay normal and it lasts for the whole day. The smell of aftershave is also subtle so it won't mix with colonge. BTW putting colonge on ur face is stupid... the only place your suppose to put on colonge are wrist, behind ears / neck and maybe armpits.
 
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