"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aftermath

Fitch

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THE FITCH TIMES


VICTORY!

The war has been won. The nation has been secured under the democratic leadership of Fitch the Great!

Banners wave in the air as the sun rises over the newly founded country.

Fitch's CONSTITUTION

DOMESTIC POLICIES

- I shall "hit the gym" on a regular basis.

- I shall begin/finish my homework, right after school.

- NO PROCRASINATION.

- MININAL SLEEP -> 7 hours.

- NO BULLSH1T on the internet

- No mastrubation; it is a waste of natural resources :p -- my country can not afford this.

- I shall READ and WRITE daily.

- I shall take care of myself; remain healthy and fit (Free Social Secruity and free medical aid to my people)

I WILL BE RESPONSIBLE. I am in control of my life.

FOREIGN POLICIES

- I will be more proactive and social

- I will voice my opinion

- I repeal the "Shy Act of 1988" (Offical ban of "shyness")

- I will be arrogant and confident

- I will be MYSELF

- I will be affable

- I will apply my learned DJ abilities into the REAL WORLD.

The judge firmly declares, "I hereby declare Fitch as a soverign nation," as his mallet slammed unto the hard wood table.

The Nation of Fitch's policies -- in laymen's terms:

- I will assume RESPONSIBILITY

- I will NEVER procrasinate

- I will do my homework right after school; in accordence to my schedule.

- I will live a healthy life and maintain a healthy diet (Working out and eating clean meals).

- I will be more forthcoming and OUTGOING

- I will voice my opinion

- I will be CONFIDENT and ARROGANT

- I will apply what I learned into the REAL WORLD

- I will become DJ!

My Schedule

In order to successfully manage, and put my policies into practice one needs a schedule to organize.

The Fundamentals:
AT SCHOOL -- LUNCH (Meal and Protein Shake)
RETURN FROM SCHOOL
GO TO THE GYM
EAT + SHAKE
HOMEWORK
STUDY
EAT + SHAKE
SAT PREP
READ and WRITE (forums and story)
PREPARE FOR THE NEXT DAY; PACK. etc.
SLEEP for 7-8 or more

IN ADDITION (to my schedule): I need to spend less time reading, and more time putting these things into practice -- learning things on my own, etc.

Thus, I will be less active then normal. I will still hang around to update my workout journal, vacation journal and the Aftermath journal and, of course, helping others; AFTER I finish what I intended to do -- as stated in my Constitution.
The new constitution has been passed and ratified. This law goes into effect on February 16, 2005, 6:00 a.m.

I urge you, my fellow comrades to join me in my cause for a greater good and unite under our "DJU" (Duon Juan UNION!), akin to the European Union.


Pick up the next issue of the Fitch Times at your local DJ forum near you for future development updates.

[UPDATED DAILY]
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Layla

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I think its great how people now are finally starting to look at their lives and changing for the better. I started something simalair to yours but without TV. I am also now going to start to stop online chatting.

However, just yesterday I broke my month long streak of no masturbation and TV.

I now want to start again and if you dont mind Fitch, I'd like to join this. I already scheduled to go to the gym tomorow and i am going to go 2+ a week.

Anyways, i dont want to steal your thread or anything so just reply if i can post some updates here
 

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I'm exstatic! You are welcome to join my alliance and post here.

I, too, do not watch T.V. nor chat on AIM (very rarely). I ceased participating in those activies months ago thus I saw no need to mention that for my nation has underdone extreme CHANGES.

Feel free to post here, however, if you prefer you can make a thread titled it the Aftermath of (handle name) revolution and put in there somewhere that we have made an alliance advocating change for the better. It would benefit in spreading our goals.

JOIN the DJ UNION!

P.S. Model after me for ideas (the Aftermath thread along with participation in the DJ U). Everyone deserves a chance to change for the better. Everyone has something to improve. Ranging from DJ skills, parent relationships, girlfriends to academic improvement.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Void

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Fitch what a good idea! I actually have been doing some aftermath lately: working out everyday & eating healthier.
but not to sucha great level!
I will join you in this.
Also just wondering, did you ever see my reply to your thread: What's wrong with the AFC (something simliar to that )
-Good idea

---Mike----
 

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DAY ONE

AT SCHOOL -- LUNCH (Meal and Protein Shake) -- [ COMPLETE ]
RETURN FROM SCHOOL -- [ COMPLETE ]
GO TO THE GYM -- [FAILED]
REASONS: My bis' have been sore for the past 5 days. I could not bend them; esp my left arm. Today they are back to normal, however, no time for the gym due to my leave tomorrow.
EAT + SHAKE -- [ COMPLETE ]
HOMEWORK -- [ COMPLETE ]
STUDY -- [ COMPLETE ]
EAT + SHAKE -- [ COMPLETE ]
SAT PREP -- [ COMPLETE ]
READ and WRITE (forums and story) -- [ COMPLETE ]
SLEEP for 7-8 or more -- [ COMPLETE ]

NO PROCRASINATION [FAILED]

I still have much to improve on. I need to stick to the schedule. Something I have not been doing. I procrasinated a bit from time to time. I am slowly overcoming my old habits. When I come back from vacation we will see if I made any improvements.

I also became more opened and in fact I have a date scheduled when I return. =]

To be continued February 28, 2005.
 
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