"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hello fellow djs.. i'd just like to know something.. say you went out with a girl a year ago.. you broke up with her now youre both friends and you talk sometimes..you go to the same school and now she has a new bf.. sometimes when u talk to her on the phone or whenever..she feels like she's superior to you.. for example the other night we were on the phone and we were talking and she says that i need her to make myself happy... im like no i dont i make myself happy.. but anyways i just want to know how to make her know that im not a chump like some of her boy friends that she can get her way with you know? i want her to know that im a MAN in charge and that i dont take crap from any girl at the same time keep our friendship going smooth.. i want to stick it into her head and etch it in stone that im a dj.. :) any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're buying into her frame when you start vehemently denying what she says like that.

She's also just using you as an ego crutch. Sever all ties with the dumb bitch now.
 
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well she is one of my good friends right now.. should i just not try and talk to her?
 
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Create rapport with her. Since you're already friends, just agree with everything she says and basically mirror her. Then, she'll start to accept everything you say as true because it's hard to disagree with yourself isn't it?

Once in a while, slip in a powerful comment about something you want her to believe about you, and then keep mirroring her. I used this on a chick once and now she believes that I know Nelly and Dr. Dre.

Boy, do I LOVE that girl!
 
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