"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
After you got the connection is it ok to say: I wanna make love to you!
- Thread starter kingman
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Insurreto
Don Juan
I'm not THAT direct, but I am very direct in opening. I tell girls I think they're ****ing hot and that's the reason I want to speak to them. But I wait with the so called SoI's (Statements of Intent: My intentions are to have sex
).But, I do tell girls I think they are amazingly hot. I even accuse them, almost bully them, for making me so God damn horny! But, to tone down the tension a bit (it's easy to come on to strong, she might feel as if she can chose wether to have sex with me or not. As if she has all the power of the interaction), I do two things:
1. I say it VERY playfully and funny, but she knows I'm honest. (I think everybody gets this, but for those that doesn't it's good to point this out)
2. I use disqualifiers. I am VERY picky when it comes to girls, and I play out on this. If a girl smokes, doesn't dance, doesn't say what she thinks etc. I tell her: It's too bad you smoke/don't dance/whatever, otherwise you'd be soooo mine baby! But now you can't have me *Smile like a retard*
If I explain badly please tell me to elaborate, I'm Swedish so sometimes translations are a little off
Much love,
- Insurreto
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