"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After work out, NO quality/deep sleep, waste of effort or not?

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Hello, I am new to this board.

I have a question, lets say I work out to muscle exhuastion, simply no more energy for another rep, NO pain, no burn out,etc.


what if I dont get a good night of sleep the same day?

would all the work go down the drain? would the next night of sleep still help somewhat repairing the damadged yet un-repaired muscle tissues?


thz.

ps, poor sleeep I meant about a 5.5 ( 0 being completely awake, 10 being ZZZZZZZzzzzZZ)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nah, any sleep is better than none. Although, I do think that getting less than 5 hours of undisturbed sleep is pointless. You might as well stay awake then go do something useful in that time, like take a walk to catch a gorgeous sunrise or doing some reading at the bagel shop early in the morning.


So, if you get at least 5 hours of quality sleep ON OCCAISION, then I wouldn't worry. Just don't do it 5 nights in a row.
 

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
...if you get at least 5 hours of quality sleep ON OCCAISION, then I wouldn't worry. Just don't do it 5 nights in a row.
I disagree. I know for me personally how much sleep I get has a HUGE effect on me, even if it is only a few hours missed in one night. Sleep time is when your body creates proteins and works on your muscles. If you miss sleep, you will not get the full benefits of your workout, and you will have less energy for working out later that day.
 
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sorry if I had stated any confusion.

>> ps, poor sleeep I meant about a 5.5 ( 0 being completely awake, 10 being ZZZZZZZzzzzZZ)<<

I actualy sleep quite alot, 10-11 hrs every nite.

I meant poor quality of the sleep which was minorly disturbed where I could wake up easily INSTEAD of even ZZZ when a tank was running around.

I know there is really nothing I can do, but just courious in finding out how baddly can that be...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is normal to wake up every once in a while during sleep. The body sleeps in 90 minute cycles, and in between cycles you might wake up for a bit.

If you're having significant problems when sleeping 10+ hours a night, try going back to 7-9 for a week or so and see if that helps (easier said than done I know :) )
 

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A bad sleep would hinder your recovery time, but all is not lost from your workout. Most (approx 75%) of a males growth hormone(GH), which is responsible for repairing and rebuilding muscle, is released when you sleep.

GH is released in approximately four pulses throughout the night, the first occuring approximately 2-2.5 hrs after you fall asleep, i.e. you are in a deep (REM) sleep. Each additional pulse of GH may take 1-1.5 hrs after this first one. Therefore, as long as you get 6-7 hrs of sleep you should be fine.

If you wakeup in between, it does alter when these pulses occur. For example, children with sleep apnea grow very little.
 
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