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Why did u have to say they were sexy snakes lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
After two weeks of sex, she does not return my calls
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You could have been a rebound, and that ex started fvckkng her again
That's what I thought for a long time too, but like I said earlier, some will withdraw because of fear. The one I was talking about, was falling hard and I think she felt she was losing control. Some people give up when they see that there is no way they will have total control.JoeMarron said:
In the end, who gives a fvck why or how? If she's not contacting you anymore, so be it.
I always say in my mind "Her loss..." and do what I was doing before.
+1 GotED
hahaGotED? said:
This is just an agree to disagree situation, and I may very well be too cynical for my own good. I just have an easier time believing that us men will come up with the most creative excuses for a woman's behaviour than a woman leaving you because she... wuvs you too much?El Suave said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TheCWord said:
It's not making excuses for them. It's simply that they don't even know why they do most of the sh!t they do and we are trying to make sense of it with logic. Doesn't matter if she left out of fear or if there's another guy in the picture. When she comes back, they always do, deal with her then according to what you want out of it at that moment.