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Why did u have to say they were sexy snakes lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
After two weeks of sex, she does not return my calls
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You could have been a rebound, and that ex started fvckkng her again
That's what I thought for a long time too, but like I said earlier, some will withdraw because of fear. The one I was talking about, was falling hard and I think she felt she was losing control. Some people give up when they see that there is no way they will have total control.JoeMarron said:
In the end, who gives a fvck why or how? If she's not contacting you anymore, so be it.
I always say in my mind "Her loss..." and do what I was doing before.
+1 GotED
hahaGotED? said:
This is just an agree to disagree situation, and I may very well be too cynical for my own good. I just have an easier time believing that us men will come up with the most creative excuses for a woman's behaviour than a woman leaving you because she... wuvs you too much?El Suave said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
TheCWord said:
It's not making excuses for them. It's simply that they don't even know why they do most of the sh!t they do and we are trying to make sense of it with logic. Doesn't matter if she left out of fear or if there's another guy in the picture. When she comes back, they always do, deal with her then according to what you want out of it at that moment.