"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After this event, how should I play it...

Levler

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I'm gonna be as brief as possible. I'm a freshman at college and yesterday we had this big party for all the new freshmens. In our class there's a girl I find kind of sexy (HB7), and when she and our class stood around a table I pulled over and tried to kiss her, but she didn't kiss me back so I started kissing her on the neck maybe 2-3 times. She said "I'm not gonna kiss with you" all the time with a straight face and she didn't look at me, just straight forward.

Anyway, afterwards she was still there and she didn't seemed to be scared. People from class was more shocked than her, haha. I'm gonna meet her again in a couple of days, how should I play it?

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Diaforetikos

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I'm kinda lost. Are you asking us how to get her or asking how to avoid an awkward situation.

In either case, I don't have enough information to actually give you sound advice.

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Levler

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Diaforetikos said:
I'm kinda lost. Are you asking us how to get her or asking how to avoid an awkward situation.

In either case, I don't have enough information to actually give you sound advice.

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The awkard situation isn't gonna come up, at least not for me - I just followed my impulse. :) But the thing is, yesterday was our last night as a class together, so I wasn't afraid to try hard. Now she definitely know I like her, but what do you guys she think after her reaction - i.e didn't get freaked out by my move on her? And yes, I would like some advice on how to get her, because now there's some opportunity for us to have som alone-time.
 

search1ng

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thought she didn't want you?

why the fck are you even seeing her?

....

She didn't react probably meant she thought you were a creep.

... i still don't understand why you're seeing her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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