"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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after ganji games?

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a girl asked me out about 3-4 times. i had no special interest in her until she revealed her actually fun and truly interesting personality. i have really bad sense of timing, i asked her the last time out and told her i'd like more though we both weren't in the mood. of course she LJBFd me. now i pull exteme ganji on her. one thing is she might be used my such kind of behaviour. should i change anything with ganji?
the other thing is that i'm sure she will contact me, maybe even after half year (and no oneitis, thank you) - what should i do then? keep it cool or try to continue? because it's obvious (why) she'll contact...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have no idea what ganji is.. I suggest you never use these terms in real life or around women.

Anyways - I have a suggestion for you. Get up and move on. If she put you in her friends category, why goto the trouble of trying so hard to get out? Trust me.. if you go out and game other women, you will be moved out of the friend category much faster than you thinking about it.
 
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