"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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after ganji games?

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a girl asked me out about 3-4 times. i had no special interest in her until she revealed her actually fun and truly interesting personality. i have really bad sense of timing, i asked her the last time out and told her i'd like more though we both weren't in the mood. of course she LJBFd me. now i pull exteme ganji on her. one thing is she might be used my such kind of behaviour. should i change anything with ganji?
the other thing is that i'm sure she will contact me, maybe even after half year (and no oneitis, thank you) - what should i do then? keep it cool or try to continue? because it's obvious (why) she'll contact...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have no idea what ganji is.. I suggest you never use these terms in real life or around women.

Anyways - I have a suggestion for you. Get up and move on. If she put you in her friends category, why goto the trouble of trying so hard to get out? Trust me.. if you go out and game other women, you will be moved out of the friend category much faster than you thinking about it.
 
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