Went on a date with an 8 everything went fine etc, the following day she writes me a text asking how i am and also says "so what did you think of me?" Why would she ask this? I basically ignored it but im just wondering why she would ask such a question?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
After first Date she texts "What did you think of me?"
- Thread starter DannyM
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She's asking for your acceptance I guess..I wouldn't give it to her lmao...
DannyM said:
She either likes you or she can't decide what to think of you. I'd probably go with the former because I am an optimist. Reply:
"You want the honest truth?"
she'll say "yes"
say:
"I'll tell ya later"
and don't.. just keep going on dates and stuff but always say "may be some other time" or whatever.
Truth be told I am kind of exhausted right now may be being honest with her is the way to go but ONLY in person and ONLY if you see that she likes you a lot. Don't reply anything over the phone unless it's teasing
