Went on a date with an 8 everything went fine etc, the following day she writes me a text asking how i am and also says "so what did you think of me?" Why would she ask this? I basically ignored it but im just wondering why she would ask such a question?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
After first Date she texts "What did you think of me?"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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She's asking for your acceptance I guess..I wouldn't give it to her lmao...
DannyM said:
She either likes you or she can't decide what to think of you. I'd probably go with the former because I am an optimist. Reply:
"You want the honest truth?"
she'll say "yes"
say:
"I'll tell ya later"
and don't.. just keep going on dates and stuff but always say "may be some other time" or whatever.
Truth be told I am kind of exhausted right now may be being honest with her is the way to go but ONLY in person and ONLY if you see that she likes you a lot. Don't reply anything over the phone unless it's teasing
