"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi guys, have been reading and learned a lot from this forum..

Have still one question though..

Have been dating this girl, for couple of weeks.. seeing eachother every week one time. Keeping things casual, have kissed and i know that she is interested. Although sometimes she seems really interested, and sometimes not at all.

Why these mixed signals? (is she testing me)

And if i want to become exclusive with this chick, what should i do.. so she is the first to ask, to only date eachother?..

I know she is not dating other guys, but has a lot of guy friends that have interest in her .. and are trying to pick her up. Is a good idea to show a little bit of jealousy, or just act cold as if it doesn't bother me?..

Thanks already ;):)

ps. with my previous experiences, the girl was always the first to ask to only date eachother..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Give her the best sex she ever had,she will be exclusive to you (at least as long as you don't **** up) and you can still **** other girls.
 
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Nice advice, but with this girl i'll have to take it easy. So you would say, that there wasn't enough attraction, and i should be more of a challenge?.. Cause mostly i'm the one to contact her.//
 
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One thing thats never mentioned on here is menstrual cycle, but it heavily plays into how a girl acts towards you (hot/cold). Meet a girl on the right day of the month and she'll **** just about anyone. "Always assume interest" is the best mentality, just go for what you want and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.
 
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oh, and if you haven't even sexed this woman then don't get exclusivity ideas in your head. you're putting the cart before the horse and thats a recipe for a good case of one-itis. never ask to be exclusive, let her do that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thaks Mountain,

You're right about the menstrual cycle, it hasn't been mentioned here.. And it's a big point for the them. They think with their emotions, and if these are ****ed up.. then you've already lost before you've started.
 
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Well if she is giving you mixed signals then most likely her interest level isn't that high. Plus you are the one always calling her and you aren't making any sexual moves - the kissing doesn't even sound that exciting.

No spark? If not, its just a matter of time before its over.
 
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There is a spark, but she just got out of a long relationship.. and i think she want to be carefull..

I did notice, when i get cold and withdraw my attention to her.. that she'll give me more attention and try harder.

So i would say that the interest level isn't that high, otherwise she would be in my bed right :) ..but it's not far under that i can't do anything about it ?
 
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