"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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After C+F?

Toushi

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Well, since my Spring Break ended, I've been talking with a lot of girls, non-stop. There's one girl that is responding very well to my approaches. I use a lot of C+F on her, and she strikes back, hitting me (playful way) and stuff.

The problem, is that I'm stuck in the C+F. Everytime she's near me she starts a convo that leads to C+F... You know, she starts teasing me and stuff, and I respond. I also pulled some kino during the convos.
But I can't create deep rapport with her.

How have you guys dealt with situations like this? How can I make the C+F not so important in our 'relation'?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sean O

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You need to do more leading. Ask her questions about stuff that you think she'll want to talk about, and then LEAD the conversation with appropriate questions (the details are all in the Bible), throwing in some C+F along the way to keep her laughing.
 

dannowillbookem

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CF isnt gonna get you a girl alone. its just part of it. this will end u up in the assshole waste of time, but fun to flirt with in the hall bin.

you gotta have a point your working towards in your conversation. not even a point really, but just something in sight so your not standing there talking about every goofy thing she does. these things are subjects...weather, sports, whether or not angelina jolie is crazy...and they're the core of your conversation.

something i never really thought out myself before.
 
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