"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After C+F?

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Toushi

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Well, since my Spring Break ended, I've been talking with a lot of girls, non-stop. There's one girl that is responding very well to my approaches. I use a lot of C+F on her, and she strikes back, hitting me (playful way) and stuff.

The problem, is that I'm stuck in the C+F. Everytime she's near me she starts a convo that leads to C+F... You know, she starts teasing me and stuff, and I respond. I also pulled some kino during the convos.
But I can't create deep rapport with her.

How have you guys dealt with situations like this? How can I make the C+F not so important in our 'relation'?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sean O

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You need to do more leading. Ask her questions about stuff that you think she'll want to talk about, and then LEAD the conversation with appropriate questions (the details are all in the Bible), throwing in some C+F along the way to keep her laughing.
 
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CF isnt gonna get you a girl alone. its just part of it. this will end u up in the assshole waste of time, but fun to flirt with in the hall bin.

you gotta have a point your working towards in your conversation. not even a point really, but just something in sight so your not standing there talking about every goofy thing she does. these things are subjects...weather, sports, whether or not angelina jolie is crazy...and they're the core of your conversation.

something i never really thought out myself before.
 
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