"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After C+F?

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Toushi

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Well, since my Spring Break ended, I've been talking with a lot of girls, non-stop. There's one girl that is responding very well to my approaches. I use a lot of C+F on her, and she strikes back, hitting me (playful way) and stuff.

The problem, is that I'm stuck in the C+F. Everytime she's near me she starts a convo that leads to C+F... You know, she starts teasing me and stuff, and I respond. I also pulled some kino during the convos.
But I can't create deep rapport with her.

How have you guys dealt with situations like this? How can I make the C+F not so important in our 'relation'?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You need to do more leading. Ask her questions about stuff that you think she'll want to talk about, and then LEAD the conversation with appropriate questions (the details are all in the Bible), throwing in some C+F along the way to keep her laughing.
 
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CF isnt gonna get you a girl alone. its just part of it. this will end u up in the assshole waste of time, but fun to flirt with in the hall bin.

you gotta have a point your working towards in your conversation. not even a point really, but just something in sight so your not standing there talking about every goofy thing she does. these things are subjects...weather, sports, whether or not angelina jolie is crazy...and they're the core of your conversation.

something i never really thought out myself before.
 
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