well i made a noteable observation about myself. i noticed that i go after girls with a better personality and that make me work for them(play hard to get). i no longer go for those hb8-10 area,iam fine with the "average" cute women. it seems as if i have come to devalue the "high society" women in out culture and have learned to value personalities more. is this happening to anyone else on here?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
after awhile do looks change for you?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nope, I just evaluate a woman by who she is and not what she has, does or status. Guys have always complained about women who chose men because of their profession or wealth, it's about time that guys do the same.
But a chick with big t1tties never hurt...
But a chick with big t1tties never hurt...
A lot of the girls I've been involved with during the past year have been in the HB9 range, but also among the most insecure women I've known.
Insecure women = Trouble!! (note the capital T)
However, one of these women was a model and quite arrogant, yet she was one of the coolest and most respectful women I've dated. I had no hassle from her ever and we even broke up on honest terms.
Confidence is a good trait to look for in women as they rely less on attention seeking and games and are fun to be with.
Insecure women = Trouble!! (note the capital T)
However, one of these women was a model and quite arrogant, yet she was one of the coolest and most respectful women I've dated. I had no hassle from her ever and we even broke up on honest terms.
Confidence is a good trait to look for in women as they rely less on attention seeking and games and are fun to be with.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You can say that again....