"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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after awhile do looks change for you?

blinkwatt

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well i made a noteable observation about myself. i noticed that i go after girls with a better personality and that make me work for them(play hard to get). i no longer go for those hb8-10 area,iam fine with the "average" cute women. it seems as if i have come to devalue the "high society" women in out culture and have learned to value personalities more. is this happening to anyone else on here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Nope, I just evaluate a woman by who she is and not what she has, does or status. Guys have always complained about women who chose men because of their profession or wealth, it's about time that guys do the same.

But a chick with big t1tties never hurt... :p
 

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A lot of the girls I've been involved with during the past year have been in the HB9 range, but also among the most insecure women I've known.

Insecure women = Trouble!! (note the capital T)

However, one of these women was a model and quite arrogant, yet she was one of the coolest and most respectful women I've dated. I had no hassle from her ever and we even broke up on honest terms.

Confidence is a good trait to look for in women as they rely less on attention seeking and games and are fun to be with.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Jariel
Insecure women = Trouble!! (note the capital T)
You can say that again....
 
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