Kourt said:
no dude i'm not trying to treat her like a human being, I'm just trying to keep my ass out of the fire
I've talked to a lawyer and hes said that since I signed the lease that if she doenst move her **** I *could* still get into some amount of legal trouble and all I'm trying to do is avoid that. My old co-worker has a cell but I don't know it. A lot of the stuff has sentimental value to her, and plus theres a bed in there that she bought for $400 like a month ago, I doubt she'd just leave everything to rot. Idk, but by the first hopefully she'll be out of my life forever
Man your too wrapped up in this and the need to ‘Do the right thing’.
So what she has sentimental value items she should have thought about that before she SHACKED UP with another guy.
Your too nice on borderline DOOR MAT, I mean man look at your reaction to things you like ‘hey is that cr** on your shoe hey don’t worry just wipe it off on my nice new shirt’. This is what you are doing over and over and OVER again and YOU still don’t get it at all.
It is still not sinking in, I can tell from your reply’s you still deep down hope this is all some weird dream and not real and you and her are going to be snug up on a sofa in a few years watching great films and having life being totally amazing, LOOK MAN it aint GONNA happen, there is no rosy GREAT life with this girl BUT there is defiantly that life with ANOTHER more rounded girl, don’t let the REAL women get away due to this waste!
This is what you do.
You talk to the landlord and TELL him what is going on, you then arrange things with him, stop assuming the landlord is some big ogre who will FU** you over, 9/10 times they are ok ppl. Come to some arrangement, tbh about it I would send her ONE text or EMAIL and I mean ONE only, telling her if she does not come for her stuff soon your leaving it for the landlord to trash.
So what she has a £400 bed, FFS man this is not your problem stop being a wanke* to this very poor shi*.
Man you are serious need of a major ball injection.
For some reason there seems to be this permanent nice guy, I think in a weird way YOU should have gotten with this women at least hopefully it may rip out that stupid nice guy mentality that makes you act liking a walking door mat, THERE IS NOTHING wrong with standing up for yourself, THERE is nothing wrong with looking after NUMBER 1.
Legal implications this is all BS.
Your too nice what some would call, 'WIMP' guy with the girl who would suck the wimp mentality out of you, WIMP get this you want to be treated like a piece of cr** do what this guy does!
I am telling you this for your own good!