"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After All the videos and thoughts put into approaching

DJnoob

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I have found that coach wayne corey's is the best approach.

EX:
The minute you see woman you like, just tell her directly what it is you want ex: are you free next weekend/lets go out for a drink after telling woman you find her attractive
Pros: You know right off the bat if she likes you/and she knows your intentions right away and not sounding AS creepy about it. + Less chance of saying something stupid.
Cons: you get rejected right away, feelings may get hurt..but if you do it often enough, you become numb to it and it just turns into a numbers game

VS

Beating around the bush then popping the question after 10 minutes of BS talking + chance of saying something really stupid..
Pros: none
Cons: time/money/effort wasted/sounding creepy letting her know later

anyone else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm a dating coach myself, and I love Corey Wayne's material. As for this particular advice: women love mystery and intrigue. Just the fact that she's getting both by going out with you - a stranger - is usually enough for most women to agree to a date, if only to unwrap the mystery of this random guy asking her out.
 
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