"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After a LTR...how long do you wait?

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Is it reasonable that after a 2 year LTR your ex hooks up with someone around a month or so after the break-up? Would you suspect cheating if this happens?

How long do you usually wait? (If you wait at all)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it took me 1 day to get back on my feet again and walk.

and I regreat wasting this day of my life.
 
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The more important question is who cares what your ex is doing? Focus on your own life and move on. We all know that its not easy.
 
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Mr. Anderson said:
Is it reasonable that after a 2 year LTR your ex hooks up with someone around a month or so after the break-up? Would you suspect cheating if this happens?

How long do you usually wait? (If you wait at all)
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Most likely she was planning to dump you, I wouldn't care much for your ex-ho, bro. In this case, I think at most you should wait before getting back in the groove is at least 2-3 months. Some of the less experienced and lower esteemed people (like your exgirlfriend) are ready to jump on to the next boyfriend. Spend those 2-3 months doing a particular workout more efficiently, hike 15-20 miles, spend more time with friends, buy clothes for yourself, take a class, check out those cool movies you've heard about, etc.

If you just think "I'm going to hit the bars and do stupid myspace/craigslist online dating starting next week", you lose my respect as a man who "could've been."
 
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