"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After a LTR...how long do you wait?

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Is it reasonable that after a 2 year LTR your ex hooks up with someone around a month or so after the break-up? Would you suspect cheating if this happens?

How long do you usually wait? (If you wait at all)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II

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it took me 1 day to get back on my feet again and walk.

and I regreat wasting this day of my life.
 
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The more important question is who cares what your ex is doing? Focus on your own life and move on. We all know that its not easy.
 
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Mr. Anderson said:
Is it reasonable that after a 2 year LTR your ex hooks up with someone around a month or so after the break-up? Would you suspect cheating if this happens?

How long do you usually wait? (If you wait at all)
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Most likely she was planning to dump you, I wouldn't care much for your ex-ho, bro. In this case, I think at most you should wait before getting back in the groove is at least 2-3 months. Some of the less experienced and lower esteemed people (like your exgirlfriend) are ready to jump on to the next boyfriend. Spend those 2-3 months doing a particular workout more efficiently, hike 15-20 miles, spend more time with friends, buy clothes for yourself, take a class, check out those cool movies you've heard about, etc.

If you just think "I'm going to hit the bars and do stupid myspace/craigslist online dating starting next week", you lose my respect as a man who "could've been."
 
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