"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After a date, what if

if she txts u after a date you?

  • txt her straight back

    Votes: 4 33.3%

  • leave it a few hours

    Votes: 7 58.3%

  • few days

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • no

    Votes: 1 8.3%
  • Total voters
    12
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DeathDealer

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It depends. If the date turned out well, text her right away back but only once. If the date was so-so, doing it a few hours later is a good idea. If the date was crappy, no reply.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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The point of all this "wait to call or txt message" stuff is just to show you got a life going for you and you're not desperate. For some reason people on this board take it to the extreme and think you got to keep playing "busy" and "hard to get" ALL THE TIME...OVER EVERY STUPID INSIGNIFICANT THING. They analyze every damn communication with a girl to death, and then beat the living crap out of it while it is dead.

ffs, you just had a date with her and she messages, you, she KNOWS you're not busy because you just got off a date with her. It's not likely you're already well into some work or something.

The main point of waiting to call or message a girl (not showing desperation) is to:

1) Get that initial date.
2) Not mess it up by calling her every day after the date.

She's not going to be more attracted to you for waiting 1 hour to txt her back after the date. If anything it may have the opposite affect by showing you don't care or aren't interested. Notice, she is NOT thinking "Oh this guy must be busy 1 hour after the date because he didn't txt me back. I'm getting so horny for him now since he didn't reply for an hour. In fact, I think I'll sleep with him tomorrow." Do you honestly think something that ridiculous is going on in her head. Just txt her back ffs!
 
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