"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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After 1.5 years, still havent moved on.

G Rambo34

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before i start im looking for some thread about the guy who saw his ex gf in the gym. my story is very similar and i would appriciate if anyone had the link to that.
anyway, ill just get to the chase here. i fell HARD for this girl back in Jan 07. i liked her since my freshman year of HS (sep 04) but she's always had this boyfriend that shes known forever (camp friend type thing) i had totally forgotten about her and how she rejected me and that stuff until today i see that she is back from college and working out at the gym. i dont know her status as of yet but it was awkward when we made eye contact, and then as i was leaving i noticed she was infront of me leaving too so i slowed down a bit but that backfired because she slowed down also as if she dropped something. then finally i walk out the gym, shes walking slower than a turtle, goes right to the garbage to throw something out and we almost run into each other. very weird. the thing is, i have changed ALOT since then. on the interior and exterior, iam very different. my game is alot higher than it was then, and if she was a stranger on the street i could def game her easily. the only problem is that we have this history of my awkwardly asking her out before really talking to her (this was before i had any game) now i feel more on top of my game than ever. i feel confident and all that stuff but now that shes home for the summer, there is a good chance i will run into her. keep in mind we only spoke like a couple of times. and like i said, my game was totally out of whack when i attempted to ask her out back in 11th grade. i really want something to come out of this. what should i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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Just use your new game on her. Otherwise move the fck on.
 
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