before i start im looking for some thread about the guy who saw his ex gf in the gym. my story is very similar and i would appriciate if anyone had the link to that.
anyway, ill just get to the chase here. i fell HARD for this girl back in Jan 07. i liked her since my freshman year of HS (sep 04) but she's always had this boyfriend that shes known forever (camp friend type thing) i had totally forgotten about her and how she rejected me and that stuff until today i see that she is back from college and working out at the gym. i dont know her status as of yet but it was awkward when we made eye contact, and then as i was leaving i noticed she was infront of me leaving too so i slowed down a bit but that backfired because she slowed down also as if she dropped something. then finally i walk out the gym, shes walking slower than a turtle, goes right to the garbage to throw something out and we almost run into each other. very weird. the thing is, i have changed ALOT since then. on the interior and exterior, iam very different. my game is alot higher than it was then, and if she was a stranger on the street i could def game her easily. the only problem is that we have this history of my awkwardly asking her out before really talking to her (this was before i had any game) now i feel more on top of my game than ever. i feel confident and all that stuff but now that shes home for the summer, there is a good chance i will run into her. keep in mind we only spoke like a couple of times. and like i said, my game was totally out of whack when i attempted to ask her out back in 11th grade. i really want something to come out of this. what should i do?
anyway, ill just get to the chase here. i fell HARD for this girl back in Jan 07. i liked her since my freshman year of HS (sep 04) but she's always had this boyfriend that shes known forever (camp friend type thing) i had totally forgotten about her and how she rejected me and that stuff until today i see that she is back from college and working out at the gym. i dont know her status as of yet but it was awkward when we made eye contact, and then as i was leaving i noticed she was infront of me leaving too so i slowed down a bit but that backfired because she slowed down also as if she dropped something. then finally i walk out the gym, shes walking slower than a turtle, goes right to the garbage to throw something out and we almost run into each other. very weird. the thing is, i have changed ALOT since then. on the interior and exterior, iam very different. my game is alot higher than it was then, and if she was a stranger on the street i could def game her easily. the only problem is that we have this history of my awkwardly asking her out before really talking to her (this was before i had any game) now i feel more on top of my game than ever. i feel confident and all that stuff but now that shes home for the summer, there is a good chance i will run into her. keep in mind we only spoke like a couple of times. and like i said, my game was totally out of whack when i attempted to ask her out back in 11th grade. i really want something to come out of this. what should i do?