"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After 1.5 years, still havent moved on.

G Rambo34

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before i start im looking for some thread about the guy who saw his ex gf in the gym. my story is very similar and i would appriciate if anyone had the link to that.
anyway, ill just get to the chase here. i fell HARD for this girl back in Jan 07. i liked her since my freshman year of HS (sep 04) but she's always had this boyfriend that shes known forever (camp friend type thing) i had totally forgotten about her and how she rejected me and that stuff until today i see that she is back from college and working out at the gym. i dont know her status as of yet but it was awkward when we made eye contact, and then as i was leaving i noticed she was infront of me leaving too so i slowed down a bit but that backfired because she slowed down also as if she dropped something. then finally i walk out the gym, shes walking slower than a turtle, goes right to the garbage to throw something out and we almost run into each other. very weird. the thing is, i have changed ALOT since then. on the interior and exterior, iam very different. my game is alot higher than it was then, and if she was a stranger on the street i could def game her easily. the only problem is that we have this history of my awkwardly asking her out before really talking to her (this was before i had any game) now i feel more on top of my game than ever. i feel confident and all that stuff but now that shes home for the summer, there is a good chance i will run into her. keep in mind we only spoke like a couple of times. and like i said, my game was totally out of whack when i attempted to ask her out back in 11th grade. i really want something to come out of this. what should i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SinJester

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Just use your new game on her. Otherwise move the fck on.
 
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