"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After 1.5 years, still havent moved on.

G Rambo34

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before i start im looking for some thread about the guy who saw his ex gf in the gym. my story is very similar and i would appriciate if anyone had the link to that.
anyway, ill just get to the chase here. i fell HARD for this girl back in Jan 07. i liked her since my freshman year of HS (sep 04) but she's always had this boyfriend that shes known forever (camp friend type thing) i had totally forgotten about her and how she rejected me and that stuff until today i see that she is back from college and working out at the gym. i dont know her status as of yet but it was awkward when we made eye contact, and then as i was leaving i noticed she was infront of me leaving too so i slowed down a bit but that backfired because she slowed down also as if she dropped something. then finally i walk out the gym, shes walking slower than a turtle, goes right to the garbage to throw something out and we almost run into each other. very weird. the thing is, i have changed ALOT since then. on the interior and exterior, iam very different. my game is alot higher than it was then, and if she was a stranger on the street i could def game her easily. the only problem is that we have this history of my awkwardly asking her out before really talking to her (this was before i had any game) now i feel more on top of my game than ever. i feel confident and all that stuff but now that shes home for the summer, there is a good chance i will run into her. keep in mind we only spoke like a couple of times. and like i said, my game was totally out of whack when i attempted to ask her out back in 11th grade. i really want something to come out of this. what should i do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SinJester

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Just use your new game on her. Otherwise move the fck on.
 
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