"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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azanon said:
Not only try to get it straight. Try to get it straight, dummy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wVLeKwSkXA
Problem you and people like you have is called narrow mindedness. Living inside a small space, a box. In other words idiocy. It's ok, soon, in a matter of weeks literally, there will be a second 9/11, nuke. (Obama was already briefed on eminent "Al Qaeda" attack, don't worry) Perhaps I'll see you on the streets, with you at the wrong end of my AK, lol. hahaha. That be funny.. Anyway, no harm intended, just don't get caught with your pants down.
are you actually that negative in real life?apusislaya said:Not only try to get it straight. Try to get it straight, dummy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wVLeKwSkXA
Problem you and people like you have is called narrow mindedness. Living inside a small space, a box. In other words idiocy. It's ok, soon, in a matter of weeks literally, there will be a second 9/11, nuke. (Obama was already briefed on eminent "Al Qaeda" attack, don't worry) Perhaps I'll see you on the streets, with you at the wrong end of my AK, lol. hahaha. That be funny.. Anyway, no harm intended, just don't get caught with your pants down.
More Cowbell Please
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Where exactly do you live?More Cowbell Please said:
Unfotunately, I'm not that lucky.......
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Yes, do try to get it straight.apusislaya said:
"Statutory Rape" is a term of art that means any "rape" offense where the element of consent is eliminated due to minority. Someone under this age (which is NOT the "majority" age of 18 -- it usually falls somewhere between 13-16) cannot consent to sex -- therefore any type of sex with a minor is considered "rape" by operation of statute: hence the term "statutory rape."
You can be charged with statutory rape as a minor in juvenile court, so don't think you being under the age of 18 is going to save you. The only thing that changes is the likelihood of prosecution -- the closer in ages the two juveniles, the less likely prosecution occurs even if a crime is technically comimitted.
Also, for you pervs out there, many states criminalize ANY sexual contact (even certain types of touching over the clothes) with individuals under the age of 13 -- so for all you high school types out there, be wary when she says she's a freshman. Saw a case once where a 15 year old kid ended up being charged (but, ultimately, prosecution dropped) when a 12 year old girl (who was already going through puberty) basically seduced him at a party.