"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFK's Month Long Test of Will

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Nope, haven't failed the masturbation thing yet. Day 3 so far. At least according to my count lol because sometimes I forget to change the day. Anyhow, like I said, not masturbating is really easy for me after like the first 3-4 days but the real thing I have trouble with is the nonprocrastination. I will try to do that for 5 days this week and hopefully change forever.

DAY 17: February 27, 2005

**FAILED**
- No masturbation/porn (Day 3).
- No junk food at all for a month (exception = diet ginger ale).
- Follow Daily Workout Routine.
--> Elliptical, 15 min. (HIIT)
--> Abs, forearms
- Get at least six hours of sleep everyday.
- Do all homework first before turning on the computer.
- No AIM chatting: Replace with phone calls.
- No forum/xanga browsing except to update this: Replace with reading a magazine or book.
- No video/computer games: Replace with guitar practice or workout.
- No swearing: Replace with a slow count to 10.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Aren't you kind of taking the fun out of life?
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Aren't you kind of taking the fun out of life?
I view it as putting control INTO my life. Then I can command time for efficiently and have more fun because while everyone else is worrying and losing sleep over their work they put back, I am relaxing and getting enough rest to look and feel good the next day.

Haven't seen you in a while TyTe. How're you doing?
 
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Don't any of you have anything about MEETING people in these "tests of will"?

honest to God. you want to improve your life? meet girls, meet guys, and start going out more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AFK sounds like he has no problems with that....He use to get less than 6 hours of sleep. :p
 

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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Don't any of you have anything about MEETING people in these "tests of will"?

honest to God. you want to improve your life? meet girls, meet guys, and start going out more.
I do, though right now it's at just practicing eye contact, maybe I should change it to talk to one new person every day.

to afk: I failed today, you win again mate.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Uh...yeah something like that. I think it definitely increases testosterone and your horniness level so you wanna talk to women more and stuff. But here that isn't the point. I just wanna control myself and be free of the limitations of pr0n and appeals of lust. That way I have total control over myself and am waaayy less inclined to give into a woman just because of her looks because I can resist it. You might wanna get a different source on the testosterone business though...I'm just repeating what I've read here.
No masturbation makes you more desperate when talking to a girl, which is a turnoff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was popping random boners everywhere today btw.

Anyhow, right now I am in a state of PISSED OFF so I'm going to lay low for a bit so I don't do anything stupid. Will update later.

Eternal, thanks for the input. It hasn't happened with me though.

DAY 18: February 28, 2005

**FAILED**
- No masturbation/porn (Day 1).
- No junk food at all for a month (exception = diet ginger ale).
- Follow Daily Workout Routine.
--> Elliptical, 15 min. (HIIT)
- Get at least six hours of sleep everyday.
- Do all homework first before turning on the computer.
- No AIM chatting: Replace with phone calls.
- No forum/xanga browsing except to update this: Replace with reading a magazine or book.
- No video/computer games: Replace with guitar practice or workout.
- No swearing: Replace with a slow count to 10.
 
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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Holy crap guys. C'mon suck it up. Every time you get the urge, just force yourself to stand up and go do something else!!!!

Ok I guess tomorrow will be day 1 for us all again. I'll edit this to update my day later.
I got this one. GURANTEED!!!! I know for a fact I'll have it. I won't lose. I've never been more serious about anything in my life.
 

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count me in for the masturbation challenge. i'll start over on Day 1, so let's get the ball rolling!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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probably a good idea considering there's some people that arn't to happy seeing all these threads start up. I'm gona go ahead and transfer my stuff over there to as well I think. I might include a journal in it, just because it sounds like an interesting idea.
Oh yea, btw, I lose again. Having barely anything going on for a day sucks.
 

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Good idea, I think I'll start a thread over there, If you haven't seen, I failed miserably today,and that was a big ****ing wake up call that this isn't going to be as easy as I thought. damn, ok so off to eternals site... I think im going to tweak my guidelines a little so we'll see what happens.

Peace
 

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sounds good, but six hours of sleep? you can do better than that. make it 8 hours at least, especially if your in high school cuz your probably still growing taller and getting enough sleep will help you reach your maximum height.
 

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nope, he's not here, or at least he stopped continuing this thread, he's over at eternals site now (link in my sig) but he hasn't posted their in a while now either. We both started up journals, but he hasnt said anything in awhile I believe.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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