"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AFK's Month Long Test of Will

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Nope, haven't failed the masturbation thing yet. Day 3 so far. At least according to my count lol because sometimes I forget to change the day. Anyhow, like I said, not masturbating is really easy for me after like the first 3-4 days but the real thing I have trouble with is the nonprocrastination. I will try to do that for 5 days this week and hopefully change forever.

DAY 17: February 27, 2005

**FAILED**
- No masturbation/porn (Day 3).
- No junk food at all for a month (exception = diet ginger ale).
- Follow Daily Workout Routine.
--> Elliptical, 15 min. (HIIT)
--> Abs, forearms
- Get at least six hours of sleep everyday.
- Do all homework first before turning on the computer.
- No AIM chatting: Replace with phone calls.
- No forum/xanga browsing except to update this: Replace with reading a magazine or book.
- No video/computer games: Replace with guitar practice or workout.
- No swearing: Replace with a slow count to 10.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aren't you kind of taking the fun out of life?
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Aren't you kind of taking the fun out of life?
I view it as putting control INTO my life. Then I can command time for efficiently and have more fun because while everyone else is worrying and losing sleep over their work they put back, I am relaxing and getting enough rest to look and feel good the next day.

Haven't seen you in a while TyTe. How're you doing?
 
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Don't any of you have anything about MEETING people in these "tests of will"?

honest to God. you want to improve your life? meet girls, meet guys, and start going out more.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AFK sounds like he has no problems with that....He use to get less than 6 hours of sleep. :p
 

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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Don't any of you have anything about MEETING people in these "tests of will"?

honest to God. you want to improve your life? meet girls, meet guys, and start going out more.
I do, though right now it's at just practicing eye contact, maybe I should change it to talk to one new person every day.

to afk: I failed today, you win again mate.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Uh...yeah something like that. I think it definitely increases testosterone and your horniness level so you wanna talk to women more and stuff. But here that isn't the point. I just wanna control myself and be free of the limitations of pr0n and appeals of lust. That way I have total control over myself and am waaayy less inclined to give into a woman just because of her looks because I can resist it. You might wanna get a different source on the testosterone business though...I'm just repeating what I've read here.
No masturbation makes you more desperate when talking to a girl, which is a turnoff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was popping random boners everywhere today btw.

Anyhow, right now I am in a state of PISSED OFF so I'm going to lay low for a bit so I don't do anything stupid. Will update later.

Eternal, thanks for the input. It hasn't happened with me though.

DAY 18: February 28, 2005

**FAILED**
- No masturbation/porn (Day 1).
- No junk food at all for a month (exception = diet ginger ale).
- Follow Daily Workout Routine.
--> Elliptical, 15 min. (HIIT)
- Get at least six hours of sleep everyday.
- Do all homework first before turning on the computer.
- No AIM chatting: Replace with phone calls.
- No forum/xanga browsing except to update this: Replace with reading a magazine or book.
- No video/computer games: Replace with guitar practice or workout.
- No swearing: Replace with a slow count to 10.
 
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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Holy crap guys. C'mon suck it up. Every time you get the urge, just force yourself to stand up and go do something else!!!!

Ok I guess tomorrow will be day 1 for us all again. I'll edit this to update my day later.
I got this one. GURANTEED!!!! I know for a fact I'll have it. I won't lose. I've never been more serious about anything in my life.
 

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count me in for the masturbation challenge. i'll start over on Day 1, so let's get the ball rolling!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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probably a good idea considering there's some people that arn't to happy seeing all these threads start up. I'm gona go ahead and transfer my stuff over there to as well I think. I might include a journal in it, just because it sounds like an interesting idea.
Oh yea, btw, I lose again. Having barely anything going on for a day sucks.
 

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Good idea, I think I'll start a thread over there, If you haven't seen, I failed miserably today,and that was a big ****ing wake up call that this isn't going to be as easy as I thought. damn, ok so off to eternals site... I think im going to tweak my guidelines a little so we'll see what happens.

Peace
 

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sounds good, but six hours of sleep? you can do better than that. make it 8 hours at least, especially if your in high school cuz your probably still growing taller and getting enough sleep will help you reach your maximum height.
 

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nope, he's not here, or at least he stopped continuing this thread, he's over at eternals site now (link in my sig) but he hasn't posted their in a while now either. We both started up journals, but he hasnt said anything in awhile I believe.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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