When I was an afc, I had no problems talking to really attractive girls. It's like I put them out of reach so I was cool, calm, and collective around them. It's funny, but a lot of them liked me for my personality, but since I didn't express my sexuality we were only friends. Girls that I thought I actually felt I had a chance with that I would get nervous around, and I didn't care about the UGs. Now that I'm learning from this site, I treat all girls pretty much the same.