"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Affirmations....

dcfball

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I found a microphone for my computer and want to record some affirmations to help better myself... does anyone have any good ones they have used, or a link to a site with a good way to make my own?

cant anyone help me?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Affirmations should be stated in the 1st person and should always be positive (i.e. I am outgoing vs. I don't want to be shy anymore). State them in the present tense.

Visualization is also tremendously powerful, perhaps more so than affirmations. I had some nice results tonight, visualizing, getting into the right state and having instant rapport with a woman I met, kinoing her, everything.

Visualize yourself (before going to bed for example) doing exactly what it is you want. Seeing scenarios with women playing out, really being there. Imagining yourself as confident, funny, relaxed, and sexy. Add detail and richness to it and make it real. Do it for at least 5-10 minutes. Your mind can't tell what's real or made up. By visualizing, you are giving your mind guided imagery and giving it a path to go on.
 

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I have some GREAT ones you could record on a tape recorder. Just let me know if you want em. If so then send me a private message.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Try these...

"I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me!"
 
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