"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Affirmations

B-Lemond

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This is a list of Affirmations that I put together.

Print this out and read it ALOUD everyday! It will make a SIGNIFICANT difference in a short amount of time.
I won't explain why affirmations work. If you wish to know then you could do a search. Onto the Affirmations:
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- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.

- I am fully competent and capable in everything that I decide to
do.

- I am highly creative, intelligent, attractive, energetic, sexy,
witty, smart, healthy, wealthy and wise.

- I love myself unconditionally just as I am.

- I am the only person that I need.

- I feel comfortable around other people.

- Other people feel comfortable around me and enjoy my presence.

- I am fun and exciting to be with because I always have a good
time.

- I am comfortable talking to women.

- I am comfortable touching women.

- Women to whom I pay attention are extremely lucky - I am what
women want.

- I acknowledge my sexuality.

- I have to look my best all the time.

- Women must prove themselves worthy of my time and attention to
receive it.

- I make no excuses for myself as a man, and I'm INNOCENT, not guilty.

- Every week of my life is an exciting, action-packed adventure.

- There is no woman alive who can resist my charm and charisma.

- My confidence is unstoppable.

- I have the power and the passion to make my life what I will.

- I act.  I don't re-act.

- I control my emotions every minute of the day.

- I am not intimidated by anyone.

- I act swiftly to get what I want from life.  He who hesitates is lost.

- Fear is the mind-killer.  I will use my fear as power.

- I work every day to improve myself, learn, and become more powerful.

- I live my life by my own code of honor.

- My actions mirror my beliefs - congruently.

- I'm a powerful communicator.

- I never apologize for myself.

- I make no excuses for my desires as a man.

- I move through this world without apology.

- I like to satisfy women.

- I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy.

- Women are abundant.

- I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive.

- Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.

- I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.

- I do not dwell in the past.

- The past can not be relived, good or bad.

- I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The choice is mine.

- I talk slow ...

- I do not care what others think ...

- I do not move or turn around because of others ...

- People have to work for my attention / interest ...

- I ignore those who are not worthy of my attention ...

- I move slowly, relaxed and controlled ...

- I stand straight, poised and spread in a relaxed way ..

- I speak in a deep, relaxed tone ...

- I remain alpha regardless of what crisis comes my way ...

- I never supplicate to others ...

- I never qualifie myself to others ...

- I get more credit for minor actions than betas ...

- I have the ultimative comfort in my own skin...

- I am the leader ...

- I attract others with my frames ...
... because I am Alpha

- I am not afraid to touch women, because women like to be touched by me.

- My sex drive is MY sex drive. MY desires are all that matter. MY satisfaction is what counts. I do not care what other people think of MY sex drive.

- I am a Don Juan
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PRiSM92289

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I'm not here to ask how they work, but for some reason I felt a little cheesy reading some of them outloud..I will continue to use them though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
 

NeW2TheGame

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Umm...does the first point make sense?

- The more I like myself the more others like themselves.
Is it suppose to be "- The more I like myself the more others like me"?
 

GaryUranga

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Affirmations rock, how do you particulary use them do you use any mental images of yourself while saying them? do you repeat them? I have my own list but its much shorter than thta one
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Doggystyle

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UberPhil said:
I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than the one you're reading. I think he called it double-induction and said it's more powerful that simply reading them. Anyone have experience doing it that way?
This is a very good idea,

An even better way would be to record them in one order on one tape recorder and in a different order on another recorder. play them at the same time with a different head phone in each ear so you have two different things playing. Its supposed to be the most effective way of getting into your subconcious.

could always read them as well in an even different order.

Always remember to relax when reading affirmations aswell
 

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Instead of asking affirmations straight ask them in the form of a question.

Like "Why am I so attractive to women?"
and then answer yourself with "Because I'm good looking, funny, confident etc.

Most importantly get in the feeling of the affirmation truely feel sexy or attractive of whatever it will not only make you more confident it will make the universe line up scenarios to prove you correct.
 

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Dude, you got the secret DVD in your siggy I'm not too worried about you.:D
 
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Well, anyone has any luck really practising these affirmations out and seeing results in real life?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is sort of like a self-positive reinforcement. Not a bad thing though.

Self-Confidence is what really drives this. You start this, you think more positive, your self-confidence goes up, you feel better about things. It's a good cycle.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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